Quarantined Cupid wants US to Communicate.

Ahhh… the smiling cherub holding its golden arrow struggles home alone. The arrows lay gathering dust for the wary souls sit quietly in their home, in their corners typing away, buzzing away, and zooming away. A sole child gets up to play and wanders only to find emptiness. The Cupid wonders why?

From the heavens above, there opens a window and the cupid takes a peak down. The bustling Earth is quiet, the cupid wonders why? Curious and naughty as he is, he flies down, window to the window it peaks to find families living together – grandparents, big kids, small kids all living together in silence. In silence, wonders cupid why? Curious as he is, he continues to jump from window to window, he sees families living together, but now he also sees the boxes with them… some small, some big but all bright and shiny. They type, they look down and they continue to type. He now knows the silence.

Cupid knows but does not know what to do. He sees the families smile, eat together and yet there is silence. He struggles for his golden arrow is useless. It is a love arrow. He needs, break the silence arrow. He knows the Earth loves each other, but in silence.

And today 14th February 2021, the Cupid urges us to break the silence. He wants us the people to communicate again. Pick up that little box in our hands and call a friend, a loved one. Put down the phone and actually talk to the loved ones again.

Communicate, the Cupid wants us to communicate and not text a lot more.

2020, a year of isolation, and amidst all the luxuries, the only luxury we craved for was the human contact. Families were homebound, it was fun initially and then the quarantine started taking a toll on ALL of us. Kids struggled, parents were frustrated and while the Earth was healing, we the people were struggling. The one thing that got us through the pandemic was communication. WhatsApp, Messenger, iMessage, and the like kept it alive for many many of us. We were grateful for the little things… and then as the Earth allowed us to come back slowly, we started getting busy again.

We are falling, back into the trap of busyness. If there is one thing 2020 has taught me, is to talk and keep the communication alive with family, loved ones, and your friends. I know, it’s hard to pause and find time in this busy world. But we have to. I read this article yesterday and it really made me think.. we keep waiting for that perfect moment but why? If we count our lives by events as the article does, there really isn’t much left. It’s quite interesting when the events of a lifetime fit into an A4 page.

An 8.5 x 11 page is all the time we have left. Make every event dot on your page meaningful. You could argue silence is golden, however, it is in the noise that silence becomes golden, today the Earth is silent, there is no noise.

The Universe created the silence so we could hear ourselves again, so we could start communicating again.

This Valentine’s Day, give your loved ones the gift of real, live, and unadulterated talk time.

Happy Valentines Day to All of You!

Valentine Day gets a Makeover!

It’s a day of love, it’s a day of passion and it’s a day for celebrating all we love, but many don’t know it was historically the day that celebrated the burial of St. Valentine and the Christian Martyr’s. Not exactly a very red rose romantic setting, so why and how did it move from Martyr’s to cupids with arrows, roses, and today in 2019, it is about celebrating self, and I love that.

This valentine day celebrate and I don’t mean going out for fancy dinners or partying and gulping down shots, instead try the reading, traveling, painting, movie going, hiking, and feeding your soul kind of celebration. Pause for a moment and dig deep down to find the tiny pilot light flickering inside you, fuel that and let it burn.

Flare up the passion you had as a child, let your dreams dazzle your days and let your smile glow over your face.

This Valentines day, promise yourself to let go of the negativity and if you can’t let to, promise yourself to ignore. The naysayers and the copy cats will always be there, do not despair. They copy, because they dream to be you. Their lives on Facebook look picture perfect but remove the filters and the brightness goes away.  Ignore them, forgive them and pray they find their peace.

In 2013, I said Love is a choice, and I still believe that. We definitely choose who to love. This Valentines day choose to love every part of yourself. The beautiful stretch marks that remind you of your gorgeous kids, the dark circles show you cared to stay awake, the grey hair is proof you care more for the world around you. Love these imperfections because they make the perfect YOU.

Do what you love. It’s hard to ignore the nays and the no’s but we all have to start some day, so start today. For many months, I did not write as the negativity was taking control, my mind told me to write, but the heart could not. Today, I am letting go of the negativity and choosing to write again. This Valentines Day, I am choosing to do what I love.

How will you celebrate Valentines Day?