Sit down,ChatGPT, She’s Got This!

Another Woman’s Day – so what have we done. A lot, Claudia Sheinbaum was elected as Mexico’s first female president in 2024, and Netumbo Nandi-Ndaitwah became Namibia’s first female president in December 2024. The Paris 2024 Olympics achieved full gender parity, with an equal number of male and female athletes, and not to forget Eileen Gu and her unapologetic brilliance. We have come a long way and yet we have a long way to go.

We have definitely cracked the glass ceiling, but it’s still not broken, and let’s face it, the biggest hurdle often is ourselves. We continue to whisper about each other, we compete for the seat at the table by withholding information rather than building a bigger a table, and we even clique to ignore one. This woman’s day, be brave enough to say it, we want a village but we want to pick and choose our own.

Also, lets be brave enough to change it.

Dear woman, You wake up the sun, finish making breakfast and lunch before the house wakes up, and yet you walk into work on time, with your head held high knowing you have a mountain of work. You navigate your gender with grace and authenticity. You come home and are present emotionally for the family. This is extraordinary – This is the kind of resilience, emotional intelligence and the ability to think multidimensionally that no machine can replace.

It’s no secret, I am not exactly in love with the AI hype, and this has led me to reading a lot about it and when I say , a lot, I mean A LOT. I recently came across this article from Stimson and it got me thinking. The glass ceiling may have gone digital, and yes, the data fed to AI has a gender bias built in, that will hurt women, and maybe in the short run, women jobs will be impacted, but I refuse to accept that we will be back on the burner again. For the love of sisterhood, I continue to read and research more and I find this WSJ article by Lauren Weber – she asked AI executives what they tell their kids about careers in an AI driven world.

Read these:

“In terms of what he should study in college, I’d want him to stay as broad as possible.” -Caroline Hanke, Global head of organizational growth and health at SAP, leading internal AI workforce transformation

Ethan Mollick, author of Co-Intelligence and a professor at Wharton, is advising his teenagers away from hyper-specialization entirely. Here’s why: If your job consists of executing one specific cognitive task repeatedly, an AI agent will eventually do it faster, cheaper, and without complaining. The future belongs to bundled generalists – people who combine three or four distinct, complementary skills into a stack that’s harder to disrupt.

“Metacognitive skills will be very important—flexibility, adaptability, experimentation, thinking critically, being able to challenge things. Developing critical-thinking skills requires friction, doing things that are hard, doing deep thinking. For that, a traditional liberal-arts education is really important.” -Jaime Teevan, Chief scientist and technical fellow, Microsoft, and trustee, Yale University

“When I think about what my kids will need as they get older, it’s human qualities: the ability to relate, to empathize and be around other humans. What’s not going to be replaceable is how you treat other people, how well you communicate with them, how kind you are.” -Daniela Amodei, President and co-founder, Anthropic

The consistent message and theme is building the human skills – be alert, know how to pivot, empathy, critical thinking, adapatability, have multiple microskills … as I read this, I am like, wait, I do this everyday and so does every other woman I know. This is it ladies, CHAT GPT can sit down – ‘cos we got this. The algorithms and models can predict a digital glass ceiling, but this humble blog Shilpa’s – predicts that women will be in demand, for we have the Natural Intelligence that cannot be machined.

There is a tiny catch though – we have to walk collectively. Yup no more whispering in corridors or cliquing.

There’s an African proverb: if you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together. Professional women have been going fast — alone, exhausted, proving ourselves in isolation. It’s time to go far.

Build your village and protect it fiercely.

What does the village look like?
It looks like recommending the woman whose work you admire — even when she’s competing for the same things you are.
It looks like amplifying her ideas in the room when they get talked over.
It looks like celebrating her win without quietly wondering why it wasn’t yours.
It looks like talking to each other and not texting.
It looks like checking in on each other’s silence.
It looks like crying together – It looks like laughing together
It looks like being present – being present – being present

Let’s stop the silence,

Start the chat

Start the referral

Start the honest conversation,

Natural Intelligence – Women. Image credit – Gemini 🙂

The next wave is about women.

Let’s be in this TOGETHER.



Happy International Women’s Day!





Pronoia!

And I took that step at 50 years. When many are thinking about retirement, it is nothing short of crazy that I am starting a new career. After raising a family for 15 years, and spending countless hours volunteering at schools, when it was time to think about career part two, education seemed like a natural transition. However, wanting to be a teacher and actually teaching are two very different wants, and so started my journey as a para educator. After working for 5 years as a para educator, I learned how to communicate with students and gain the skills of one on one teaching. Then came the pandemic and while it created havoc for many families, it was also the much needed pause education industry needed. The dichotomy and deficits of the education policies came forward, EdTech took leaps of innovation, and as parents struggled to balance work and kids at home, for the first time in many decades teachers were at the center and their work was now meaningful. Somewhere in this pandemic, I also took a leap of faith and made the decision to apply for teaching role. I had genuinely thought, HR will come back and tell me the gaps in my resume and then I will need to build it up, but to my surprise, I was offered a role at my neighborhood high school.

I remember my first day in Jan 2022 – here I was hyper excited, but my enthusiasm was short lived because many in the department even before working with me, concluded, I can’t do this job. I genuinely thought of going back and spoke to the admin who interviewed me, a seasoned educator himself, he told me to take the day off ,and said, tomorrow will be a new day. I will always be grateful to him for this advise. I took this day off to find my village and after debating with myself, I emailed a veteran teacher at the school. Ms. A (now retired) responded, my door is open, come on in, and then there was Ms. P and Ms. K. The next day, I met my program specialist, Dr. H, and, so started the journey. I am forever grateful, and thankful to these two ladies, for showing me the way, how to write my IEPs, and reassuring me that I can do this. Along the way, I now have Ms. K next door, a fellow believer in Pronoia and it’s been the best few months. Ms. P and Ms. K were the lifelines of the classroom and together, we slowly started moving forward.

June 2024, I completed my second year of teaching at the high school and it is also the season of graduations. , I paid my dues, and after 2 years of college studies, with intern teaching, I officially turned the nay’s into yay’s and am now an Ed.Specialist. This journey has been very hard, very rewarding and I saw Pronoia in action. There were days when I was bone tired, mentally exhausted, and yet I managed to write the reports, complete CTC portfolios and more. The Universe kept me sane, and introduced me to people who shared the same values. I know I am blowing my own trumpet but I am so proud of myself, and happy with myself for not listening to the negatives and moving forward with the positives.

This journey would not have been possible, had it not been for the ASAP family… Together, you inspire more than you will ever know, and thank you for being patient with all those weeks when dinner was a takeout or a left over meal. Husband dear, your whistles reassure that this crazy roller coaster life will sort itself out. To my children – let this journey be a reminder that it is never too late to take a u -turn or walk a different path, especially if it feels right to you. I hope as you evaluate your career choices, you will continue to find opportunities that inspire you to get up everyday with a bounce in your step and a smile on your face. To my parents, I hope somewhere in this journey, you saw the values and the grit you instilled in me, and to all who said a no to me, I owe you a special thank you, because your no to me, helped me find the grit in me to move forward, so thank you!

In this journey, I have often stood on the side and made my notes .. Musings of an Educator… soon to come. Until then, stay well and stay you.

Very Happy for ME!