Sit down,ChatGPT, She’s Got This!

Another Woman’s Day – so what have we done. A lot, Claudia Sheinbaum was elected as Mexico’s first female president in 2024, and Netumbo Nandi-Ndaitwah became Namibia’s first female president in December 2024. The Paris 2024 Olympics achieved full gender parity, with an equal number of male and female athletes, and not to forget Eileen Gu and her unapologetic brilliance. We have come a long way and yet we have a long way to go.

We have definitely cracked the glass ceiling, but it’s still not broken, and let’s face it, the biggest hurdle often is ourselves. We continue to whisper about each other, we compete for the seat at the table by withholding information rather than building a bigger a table, and we even clique to ignore one. This woman’s day, be brave enough to say it, we want a village but we want to pick and choose our own.

Also, lets be brave enough to change it.

Dear woman, You wake up the sun, finish making breakfast and lunch before the house wakes up, and yet you walk into work on time, with your head held high knowing you have a mountain of work. You navigate your gender with grace and authenticity. You come home and are present emotionally for the family. This is extraordinary – This is the kind of resilience, emotional intelligence and the ability to think multidimensionally that no machine can replace.

It’s no secret, I am not exactly in love with the AI hype, and this has led me to reading a lot about it and when I say , a lot, I mean A LOT. I recently came across this article from Stimson and it got me thinking. The glass ceiling may have gone digital, and yes, the data fed to AI has a gender bias built in, that will hurt women, and maybe in the short run, women jobs will be impacted, but I refuse to accept that we will be back on the burner again. For the love of sisterhood, I continue to read and research more and I find this WSJ article by Lauren Weber – she asked AI executives what they tell their kids about careers in an AI driven world.

Read these:

“In terms of what he should study in college, I’d want him to stay as broad as possible.” -Caroline Hanke, Global head of organizational growth and health at SAP, leading internal AI workforce transformation

Ethan Mollick, author of Co-Intelligence and a professor at Wharton, is advising his teenagers away from hyper-specialization entirely. Here’s why: If your job consists of executing one specific cognitive task repeatedly, an AI agent will eventually do it faster, cheaper, and without complaining. The future belongs to bundled generalists – people who combine three or four distinct, complementary skills into a stack that’s harder to disrupt.

“Metacognitive skills will be very important—flexibility, adaptability, experimentation, thinking critically, being able to challenge things. Developing critical-thinking skills requires friction, doing things that are hard, doing deep thinking. For that, a traditional liberal-arts education is really important.” -Jaime Teevan, Chief scientist and technical fellow, Microsoft, and trustee, Yale University

“When I think about what my kids will need as they get older, it’s human qualities: the ability to relate, to empathize and be around other humans. What’s not going to be replaceable is how you treat other people, how well you communicate with them, how kind you are.” -Daniela Amodei, President and co-founder, Anthropic

The consistent message and theme is building the human skills – be alert, know how to pivot, empathy, critical thinking, adapatability, have multiple microskills … as I read this, I am like, wait, I do this everyday and so does every other woman I know. This is it ladies, CHAT GPT can sit down – ‘cos we got this. The algorithms and models can predict a digital glass ceiling, but this humble blog Shilpa’s – predicts that women will be in demand, for we have the Natural Intelligence that cannot be machined.

There is a tiny catch though – we have to walk collectively. Yup no more whispering in corridors or cliquing.

There’s an African proverb: if you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together. Professional women have been going fast — alone, exhausted, proving ourselves in isolation. It’s time to go far.

Build your village and protect it fiercely.

What does the village look like?
It looks like recommending the woman whose work you admire — even when she’s competing for the same things you are.
It looks like amplifying her ideas in the room when they get talked over.
It looks like celebrating her win without quietly wondering why it wasn’t yours.
It looks like talking to each other and not texting.
It looks like checking in on each other’s silence.
It looks like crying together – It looks like laughing together
It looks like being present – being present – being present

Let’s stop the silence,

Start the chat

Start the referral

Start the honest conversation,

Natural Intelligence – Women. Image credit – Gemini 🙂

The next wave is about women.

Let’s be in this TOGETHER.



Happy International Women’s Day!





We the Women…

Woman’s day, Woman’s week – we celebrated by sharing pictures, sending uplifting messages on WA and FB to each other and just enjoyed the glory of being ourselves.  One of the stream of messages on WA caught my attention, it talked about the other side of womanhood. It talked about how “we the women” are frenemies. Yes you read it right, we are our own friends and enemies.

For  a few minutes let’s keep all the Lean In feminism on the side and think about this. When we see a mom – with a stellar career choosing to move on with her career and not coming to field trips in school, we the super cool moms who attend the field trips are the first ones to comment on how Ms. Busy Bee never has time. “We the women” never complaint about dads not coming or being a part of it, “we the women” just accept that no matter how busy a mom is, she has to find time. “We the women” grunt at the mom, who sends her kid to school with unbrushed hair, “we the women” snicker at the friend who writes post after post of how amazing her life is.  “We the women” look at others and wonder about The Dress Up Game (http://www.shilpaverma.com/the-dress-up-game/) The bottom line is “we the women” have an inherent trait of jealousy in us.  Guys don’t have that. You can argue they do, and maybe you are right. But the woman jealousy factor is 100 times more potent. Guys are competitive and may choose to take a short cut to succeed in their career, but they don’t have time or the patience to gossip about another guy who is doing better than that. We the women do. We love gossips. And just to be clear, the WE in “we the women” includes me too. 

All the women gossip , MIL, jealous wife jokes exist for  reason. They are fictitious but stem from reality.

India – a country close to my heart is slaved to domestic help. If the maid calls in sick, the whole family grunts and grinds. On woman’s day – how many of “we the women” choose to give that maid a day off as a mark of respect to her womanhood. “We the women” pampered ourselves in salons and gatherings, all in while we had another woman cleaning up our mess.   

Why am I venting out? Simply because I wish for “we the women” to stop comparing ourselves to ourselves. Stop judging me based on what I do. Stop being unhappy with your life because you think mine is perfect. Guess what, mine is not. I have my battles too. I fight them everyday with my internal strength and a prayer and somewhere in between I try to smile too.  You should do the same. Life did not promise us a bed of roses, but it does have this unique way of preparing us for the future. So next time, please don’t judge me based on my clothes, or how I look or what I do with my life. My life is mine and yours is yours. Why oh why do “we the women” judge. Let’s just be and let us be.  

Let it be “Us the Women,” ‘cos both you and I know that this journey called womanhood would be impossible without girlfriends.  

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