The Last Frontier – Part 2

Travelers are attracted to Alaska for its roadless travel and rugged outdoors. I was attracted to Alaska for a simple reason, I wanted to see the land where the sun stays awake for 20 hours, takes a power nap and is up again at 4.00am.  I thought it would be disorienting. It was quite the opposite. This is a sunset view at 11.30pm and we had just finished dinner 🙂 By talking with the locals at the hotels and in and out of our tours, I quickly realized one thing – every Alaskan deals with the long days in their own special way; some take in between naps, some don’t sleep for 48 hours and some just invest in heavy duty light control drapes. One way or the other, they find time to sleep and enjoy the bountiful of nature.

Up against the horizon you see Mt. McKinley or The Denali Mountain as the natives called it. FullSizeRenderThis is a view of The Denali Mountain during day time.
FullSizeRender_1Our second day started with a tour of the Anchorage Museum, which is a must see if you are a history buff and if you are not, start driving to Talkeetna.  Our destination was the Talkeetna Alaskan Lodge (http://www.talkeetnalodge.com/) our base camp for the next two nights. This lodge is the only place you want to stay in Talkeetna. There are other lodges and hotels, but if you want to see Mt. McKinley in your backyard then this is it and yes the view comes with a price, but its well worth it.

The Talkeetna Alaskan Lodge – rolling hills and Denali with outstanding service and every room is a room with a view.

IMG_4017 FullSizeRender_2Alaska is the only state where the dog mushers and their Alaskan huskies are celebrated like the Hollywood stars. If you go to Alaska, meeting the stars of the Iditarod races is a must do item. Iditarod? you may not have heard of the race, but I am sure you have heard of the movie Balto.. well think of these dogs as the modern day Balto’s. The Iditarod race  commemorates the “Great Race of Mercy,” a real race against time that saved lives threatened by disease. This real race inspired Balto 🙂

We took the Sun Dog Kennel Tour in Talkeetna, AK.  The hotel shuttle gave us a ride to Talkeetna downtown and from there the Kennel folks drove us to meet the stars.
IMG_4021IMG_4047Every March, the 1049 miles Iditarod race starts from Willow to end at Nome. Nome by the way is a tiny town in the middle of nowhere, take a few steps beyond Nome and you might just find yourself in Russia.  These strong hardy sled dogs race through the frozen tundra’s with their musher. It is one man and 16 dogs working as a team.  Here is a map of the race, with the Musher and his sled.

IMG_4030 IMG_4028Here is  a glimpse of the dogs pulling the ATV. You say WTH? I said that too. But the dogs are not really pulling the entire 2000+ lbs load.. they are tied to it.. the ATV drives itself and the dogs run.. that’s how they get their exercise during the summer months. It gives them exercise and the mushers get their money in the form of tour fees to keep it going in the cold winter months. A very creative business idea. Please don’t think that the dogs were mistreated or are being abused.. these animals are loved and very well taken care off. We saw their facility and it was clear that the animals were family and well loved.

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IMG_0003I am not a pet person. I don’t dislike animals, it’s just that I am incapable of communicating with them. That’s my handicap not their’s and I am not exactly proud of it, but that’s who I am, so when I saw these mushers and their families devoted and so dedicated to the nurturing and caring for them, I was humbled by their unconditional love. We left the kennel with a warm and fuzzy feeling and rested before our next adventure, when we meet the skies with K2 Aviation.

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When we arrived at K2, we were armed with our winter jackets. Why you ask? Well, going on a glacier flying high into the mountains, it is reasonable to assume the air will be cold,right? Wrong. Turns out the temperature at the glaciers was only about 10 degrees cooler than the land and it was 80+ F on the land. Yes, Alaska can get very warm too.  It is much more than permafrost and snow.  So looking like absolute city folks we were politely told, we can take our jackets if we want or else we can leave them in the bins. We left them in the bins.

An aerial view of the mountains. The tallest peak is Denali.FullSizeRenderAs the pilot approaches the landing area – I look at the crevices and wonder how will he land in such soft snow. IMG_4159And then we land and step on to glacier. 

IMG_4183I gently stepped out and looked beyond, and silently said to myself, Shilpa “welcome to Planet Krypton.”  Ok, yes, I am a Superman fan and if Krypton was real, this is how it would be; Crystal blue skies with mountains of dark blue Kryptonite covered in snow.  FullSizeRender_1Another plane lands on the glacier. We asked the pilot who owns this area and manages it. He said, no on owns it. Multiple people use it and respect each other and the glacier.  Again,  a simple thought and yet so novel for us city folks. 

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In the brief but ever lasting 20 minutes, we took our pictures, the kids made their snow angels and we were on our way back. 

One last look at the mountains from the best seat on the plane – co pilot. The teen in the group got to be the co-pilot on the flight back and took some amazing picture of the sun peaking through the clouds and the tundra below. 

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IMG_0120Before the glacier landing experience, I was nervous. I thought it would be an overwhelming experience to stand on a glacier amongst the mountains as high as my eye could see, but it was not. With mountains on all four sides, the mild fog caressing our warm bodies, I felt nestled in. 

The seas of Alaska were like the wild and unbridled youth, full of adventure and the want to explore, the mountains remind us to be mature, patient and calm. The world may call them a Volcano, but until the balance is not tipped, they stay at peace with themselves and the world around them.

I now wondered what the forests would feel like. Alaska, you continue to tantalize.
The Alaskan Tiaga forests tomorrow. Stay tuned. 

Boring Boredom!

We are officially half way done with summer and some of us are desperately waiting for schools to reopen while some of us (like myself) wishes the vacations continue for ever. Why can’t we just have a year round school.. study for one unit, take a break and then go back. So much better, don’t you think. As adults, don’t we feel like taking a break every 2-3 months, then why deprive the kids of that luxury. Anyways, I know most of you are rolling your eyes and wondering what planet I come from. Well, it’s the same as yours, Earth, I just don’t like the constant drilling mode we are in.

Why is summer a bummer and a stress factor for so many parents? Why do parents worry about their kids getting bored?  Seriously, since when has a bored mind become a bad thing. Mind is a machine and like every other machine it needs its downtime too.

Okay, before you say anything, I do realize that I work from my home office and my kids have the luxury, but so do yours. Honestly, they do. I tried giving this idea to a few moms this year and they looked at me like I was Dorothy making a wish. Here’s a possible solution – your kids have friends – some very nice, some okay. Meet up with their parents and form a group, 5-6 families and have the group of kids go to the respective homes turn by turn. You get your kids only once a week and yet they are out of your way without any major expense or structure.  Again, I know this solution does not work for everyone, but it’s a worth a try, isn’t it?  Infact, I wouldn’t mind doing it with my kids too.  I tried selling it, but it did not fly with many. I wondered why? I am still wondering why?  If you have insights, please do share them.

Overtime my kids complaint of how boring it is, I tell them it’s okay to get bored.It’s perfectly okay to hang upside down on the couch and stare at the ceiling.  They are getting bored, not tortured. Their bellies are full, have clean clothes and not a worry in the world.. that’s a lot to be happy about.   Over time, the frequency of “I am getting bored” has gone down – they find their thing now. When they can’t find anything better to do, they both end up in the backyard.. sometimes screaming at each other, sometimes playing with each other.  At first, every time they screamed, I ran outside to calm them down because I didn’t want the neighbors thinking I have unruly kids. Now, I don’t.  In my heart I know what the neighbors are thinking – this mom has no control or she does not care. Quite honestly, I am keeping an eye on my kids, but I have realized one thing, the over parenting I have  done in the past years back fired on me.  The kids today take life as an entitlement and I have a problem with that. Life is a gift and its a privilege to have clean running water, the kids need to understand that, but they don’t. It is important for these kids to fall, hurt a knee or two, be in pain so they realize the joy of not being in pain.  It’s not easy, especially in today’s times when we judge each other with a magnifying glass. Why? As parents, aren’t we all in the same boat, so why do we judge? Why do we credit the success or failure of the child to the parent? Is it the parent who got the honor roll or is it the parent who went to summer school? Neither and yet we judge.

This summer, I realized another thing, as parents we take way too much credit for the success of our kids and we blame ourselves way too much for their failure too. If a parent watches their kids like a hawk, that’s okay – we all have our fears and our reasons are our own.  The smart parent though will watch and speak only when needed.

Just as a clarification – it took me two years to get here. Two years ago, I was the helicopter parent and I sadly thought hovering was ok.

It is important for these kids to have nothing to do. It is important to get bored, because that’s when they will be forced to open those long lost tubs of goodies and make things happen. When they create their own play, summer will suddenly be magical. Human beings are creators and inventors. If you Google the history, the most brilliant ideas came from a lazy activity.  What do you think Newton was doing under an apple tree?  I am pretty sure he was lazing around.

Bored Creativity

 

I am not undermining the efforts or the kids who do strive to succeed and like to stay busy all day and want something to do. The point is if they can come up with ideas, give them the tools to make those ideas a reality, but don’t think of the ideas for them. In my house today, there are only three ideas, electronics, tennis and hoola hoops and somewhere in between tons of food. Quite honestly, thats okay with me.

I let my kids run wild in summer. Most parents will disagree with my strategy, and quite honestly, I don’t know if I am right or wrong. Time will tell. What I do know is I want my kids to enjoy being home and in turn enjoying being with me and that’s all that matters. I continue to try hard and not worry about what classes my middle schooler will get or who will be my daughter’s teacher.

I am hoping that this freedom to get bored and find a way to snap out of the boredom will also teach them to take what life gives them and make the best of it.

Have fun this summer with your kids. They are going to be in your nest for only 18 years before they fly away to build their own nest. Give them memories that will make them come back often.

If you are bored of reading this, too bad, because I had a blast writing this 🙂

In the lap of Redwoods

They were born centuries ago, with roots deep into the grounds they soar high and aim for the stars. The winds can blow hard, the fires can burn and yet they continue to stand tall. They are the majestic Redwoods.

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Enroute to Hendy Woods

Trees – we take them for granted. We cut them, make paper, and then we spend millions to recycle paper so we don’t have to cut more trees. Something very wrong with that logic, but that’s where we are today and we cannot turn back. What we can do is learn from them,  learn from the trees, learn from the Redwoods. Trees they teach us to stay grounded. They teach us to take in the worse and give out the best. They teach us not to loose our purpose.  This summer has been about trees. I am not sure why, but the trees have been calling 🙂 every painting I make, every walk I take, I cannot but help look at the imperfectly perfect silhouettes of trees.  So when I decided to search for a campsite, it was only natural that I find a state park with abundant trees.

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Lemons Market – the closest grocery store to Hendy Woods. Very pricey, but you get all the basics that you need for cooking.

My search took me to Hendy Woods State Park in Mendocino County approximately a 3 hour drive North of San Francisco.  It is an absolutely amazing site for families camping with kids.  We packed two SUVs with tents, food, mattresses, pillows, more food, water, and tons of ice. The weather folks said it’s going to be 100F – Ouch! Why does every camping trip I take have to be a scorcher, but a promise made is a promise made.. so off we started our trip. It’s an easy drive, a few twists and turns but nothing too strenuous. As we entered Philo, CA life slowed down. With a population of 347, there is no need to move fast. Lucky folks. What do you think?IMG_2973

A quick caveat, your GPS will take you on 128 and say you have reached Hendy Woods State Park, but there is no sign of it. Drive further about for 2 miles and you will see a sign, turn into Greenwood Road and voila – Hendy Woods State Park. 

The ranger lady at the check in was super friendly and welcomed us with tips and ideas on things to do. The Navarro river flows in the park, but the drought has hit it bad, so there wasn’t much happening in the river, she said. We were bummed a little, but there was still plenty to do in the area.  We drove into the park and onto our campsite.  Beautiful isn’t it?  The crew starts to set up right away 🙂

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Our Campsite

And before we knew it, team work had these two tents up. 

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Next stop, we need some Chai 🙂

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The boys get busy and build a camp fire – the best part of camping.
There is something magical, romantic and yet fearful about fire.
It entices and yet pushes you away. It demands respect. 

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We put the fire to good use. It keeps us warm and cooks our food. Chicken for the carnivores 🙂

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Veggie wraps for the herbivores 🙂

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I woke up to this –  the birds chirping and a tree canopy.
The air was crisp and cold, the sky was clear and bright and I felt blessed
and for once, there was no thought crossing my mind. My mind was empty. 

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This little guy is called ” A Banana Slug” – my mini me found him on a tree stump near our tent.
It was her treasure find.

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We spent the day visiting the neighborhood. An hour from Hendy Woods are treasures galore, from Russian Gulch State Park (It’s full of poison ivy, so I do not recommend it) to The Point Arena Light House (below) to the Glass Beach there is plenty to do and keep you busy Or you can just chill out at one of the turnout beaches. A quick warning – Do not take the Mountain View Road to go back and forth between Camp and Pt Arena. CA 1 is a little longer but much easier – 16% grade for 7 miles is not fun 🙂

 After being disappointed with poison ivy at Russian Gulch, we drove to Pt. Arena Lighthouse.  We were here not too long ago, but the feeling was just as magical. It is absolutely breathtaking. IMG_3048

On our way back, we stopped at “The Apple Farm.” This is right before the bridge that takes you to Hendy Woods and it is an ABSOLUTE MUST. Here’s a fun fact for you – I do not like apple juice, never have, never understood apple juice either. But this apple juice, it’s different. It is “THE BEST” apple juice on planet Earth. Best part – scroll down to read 🙂 

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Best part – Honor System. Who does that in today’s times? I guess only folks who know their product is so good, that anyone who tries to cheat them will feel guilty 🙂 It’s a pure honor system, take your pic from the assorted goodies,
put the cash in their cash box and walk away 🙂 

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The night was lots of fun with campfire songs, some sea shanty songs, good forest stories and had lots of fun – thanks to Park Ranger Steve. No camp is complete without Smores, so we made Smores 🙂

IMG_3020And so ended our second night at Hendy Woods State Park. Next morning was all about packing up –   take the tents down, and load up the SUV’s and make our way back to the urban life.

As we drove back, I could not help but amuse myself with the thought that human beings despite all the hoo-ha on technology search low and high for a place that has not been touched by the human hand. A place that is not connected, just so we can connect back to our primal roots. A place where we can sit and stare and stare some more without the worry about a “to do list.”

What greeted me when I came back home helped continue the experience. This insane beautiful gorgeous CA sky.  And so ended a short but very relaxed vacation. Hendy Woods we will come back.

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Shilpa’s Summer Contest.

Summer vacations – they are almost here and so is the Summer Contest. Last year, I took a small step towards my vision of having an education system where in the lack of being able to memorize  was not punished. It gave rise to the summer writing contest – http://www.shilpaverma.com/a-summer-contest/

The contest got a lot of good responses but unfortunately not too many entries came in and the judges didn’t really have much to choose from. This was probably a lack of marketing on my effort, so this year, I’ll try and be more active and keep reminding you.  Hope that’s ok 🙂

The rules this year are simple. Any student can participate. Since I don’t know how many kids will actually participate, I will leave the age and topic categories out.  My total budget for prizes for this contest is $200.  I know it’s a small amount, but since this is a self sponsored event, I can only afford so much.  The essay is open to all ages and school going kids.

Many of you have small businesses out there, if you would like to sponsor a prize, please email me at bloggingtale@gmail.com and we can make it bigger and better. I love creative collaboration and promise you it will be a relationship that is mutually beneficial. 

Topic? That is always a big question mark for me. Should I give it structure or should I let if flow freely. This year I have decided to keep it free flowing.

                                    The topic is: I wish my school….  

Maximum words allowed: 700
Essay has to be typed. For the younger ones, parents can help type, but please be honest and let it be their ideas and not yours. I think our judges are smart enough to know the difference.
Due Date: August 10th, 2015.
Email final essay to: bloggingtale@gmail.com Include your name, age and email ID/Phone number. 

“I wish my school…” is a very abstract topic. I chose this for two reasons. First, summer is when they unwind from the rigor of testing and studying. This is the time when they can  imagine their school to be all they want it to be. Second, education industry is the only industry in the world that puts out products with no input from its end consumer – the student. Let this essay be their opportunity to express what they want their school to be. Will it make a difference? Who knows? It’s a start, lets see where this takes us. The free flow is to let the student take it in any direction that they want.  They get enough rules in the school, here they can write as they want. The can write about their abstract wishes of wishing that school was only 2 hours long or how they wish they could play all day or maybe they wish they had no tests in school. But here’s the key – In addition to writing what they wish, they also need to say Why that is important to them and How will that help them as they venture into higher grades or the real world.  

For instance, the student can absolutely say, I wish my school was on Planet Mars, but he/she then has to explain why and how will that be helpful as compared to the school being on Earth. The student can say, I wish I had no tests but projects in school, but then remember to say why and how will that be helpful and more important. The student can also say, I wish my school stayed the same and then explain why he/she does not wish to change anything.

The idea is to let them express themselves and like last year, there are no extra points for using the dictionary while writing. I am a firm believer
that good writing is simple and yet captivating. No one should be penalized for not memorizing the English dictionary. The judges will be looking for good hooks, ideas, a cohesive structure to writing, a thought process and a good conclusion.

I hope you, the parent will help me by showing this to your student and encourage them to participate. Don’t force, but friendly reminders are okay. If you would like to sponsor any part of this competition, write to me at bloggingtale@gmail.com

Thank you again for the love and support to this blog. Have a wonderful summer and keep in touch.

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Indian Food – Popular or not?

IMG_99221% of the US population is Indian and  yet there is no Indian restaurant that serves authentic Indian food. Why? Some of you already callme the Samosa Nazi, because I refuse to eat a Samosa at a restaurant, simply because I know it’s not going to be as it should be. I very rarely order Chole Batura, for I do not like this iconic dish altered so it can “fit” into the western palette. Why does Indian food feel such a strong need to “fit” into? Why can’t Indian food recognize that it is brilliant as it is?

The most common answer to this Why is; well the vegetables don’t taste the same. You know the potatoes taste different, so how can the samosa taste the same? Really? And so started this blogpost, and the different ideas on why? Here’s what I think is happening, feel free to chime in and correct me.

  • Still local: Indian food is still very localized. Yes, there are Indian restaurants every where, but unless, the Indians become ubiquitous across the entire country, it’s going to be hard for the food to go mainstream.
  • Ethnic Cheap:  Indian food is typically considered an “ethnic” food, but the prices are comparable to a foreign food restaurant.  Foreign food to me is something that very few people would be willing to try, and again that will depend on the demographics. For instance, when Sushi entered Midwest it was foreign, but it has been mainstream in CA for a very long time. As foodies, we may pay a premium for something we consider foreign, but ethnic is typically a step below. Even as Indians ourselves, we scrunge at the thought of paying $20 for an Indian buffet. Why won’t others?
  • Penny wise pound foolish: Indian restaurants need to stop pinching pennies and do a better job with explaining the ingredients. Maybe spend some money of decor and serving ware too. Even the high end restaurants will charge you for pickles. Come on guys.. it’s time you started counting the dollars and stopped worrying about the pennies and let the pickles flow.  In fact have  a pickle bar, let your customers try out the mild and spicy tangy flavors. If they get hooked to these flavors it is more business in the long run.
  • It’s Hot n Spicy: Indian food is misunderstood. Yes, the mention of Indian food brings up images of the burn your mouth curries and sadly we Indians are to be blamed for that.  The truth is India started using chilli peppers only after the Portuguese landed in Goa. Until then the Indians used black pepper and Pippali (now only used in pickles.) The truth is Indian food is infused with flavors and on individual preferences can include burn your mouth spiciness.
  • More than a curry: Curry is a generic term. Curry is essentially a gravy. Americanization of Indian food has resulted in a sad standardization. The truth is Chicken tikka masala and paneer masala do not have the same curry base, and if they do, please walk out of that restaurant. IMHO Chicken tikka masala is a much richer base, where as paneer masala can be made with a basic onion – tomato paste, ginger, a pinch of turmeric, a touch of garam masala and maybe some yogurt for the creaminess. Serve a home cooked paneer masala with hot off the press roti’s, a side of pickle and cucumber raita, you have a health low calorie meal fit to please the pickiest palette.
  • It’s rich and heavy: Again a sad translation to fit in. Indian home cooked meals are probably one of the lowest calorie intensive meals you can have.  The rich, cream based gravies are a sign of desperation by the Indian restaurant owners to lure in the customers.This again stems from the myth that if one takes “chilli pepper” out, the flavors will go away, and so pour in the creams and clarified butter. Try replacing the chilli pepper with ginger, garlic, clove, cinnamon and cilantro. You won’t miss the chilli pepper guaranteed.

Did you see the movie, “The 100 foot journey” if yes, what was your take on it? 

The movie does not do justice to its producers (Steven Spielberg or Oprah Winfrey,) it however does bring forth the point of “staying true to your roots.” Most people enjoyed it because it glorified Indian food, but I think it glorified the idea of staying honest with the spices 🙂 It was not about Indian food or how spicy it is. Yes Indian food is hot, but it is sexy hot and not chilli pepper hot. That was my take on the movie. The movie very aptly showed how Hassan Kadam a home trained culinary genius became a sensation in the food world.  Hassan was enjoying the glory and fame only to realize very quickly that commercialization and fusion was killing his creativity. He soon realized that the Michelin stars will come only when he stays true to his roots, so he comes back and opens his rackety old spice box to create magic.

Unlike many other cuisines where flavors are shared, Indian cuisine does not share flavors but rather each spice tantalizes the palette unlike any other cuisine. The effortlessly blending in all in while maintaining the distinct flavors is what makes the Indian cuisine unique.

Will Indian food become main stream? Yes, it can ONLY and ONLY if, the true authentic flavors of home cooked meals from the kitchens of Indian can be served in the restaurants. Just like human beings, honesty and authenticity is important in food too. 

As Indians we often complaint about how India was dominated and enslaved for centuries. This slavery gave us the rich cuisine today. The Mughals brought in the tandoors and naans, the Europeans brought the the chills, potatoes and tea 🙂 We embraced it all and made it our own. It’s time to embrace it again and stop customizing it to fit the western palette.

Keep it simple and keep it true. 

A Paused Vacation.

Staying true to our pledge of discovering as many national parks as possible, this Spring, we once again chose an alternate destination – Crater Lake. Oregon. It is one of the top 100 places to see before you die :), but  what makes it different is its surroundings. Usually, any national park or popular destination has small towns buzzing with activity and signs of commercialization are visible from far, but not near Crater Lake.  We saw nothing but acres and acres of open spaces, lakes and mountains. The tiny towns with their abandoned shacks and buildings looked more like ghost towns and yet part of the lake is open all year round and welcomes visitors to experience the calm and humility of its magnificence.

DAY 1: We start our drive from CA to our destination, Running Y Resort, Klamath Falls, OR (www.runningy.com) It is approx a 6 hour drive filled with nature and beauty. Mt. Shasta welcomes you to the beauty and grandeur of this area.

Mt. Shasta - It's grandeur is humbling and a reminder to how little man is.
Mt. Shasta – It’s grandeur is humbling and a reminder to how little man is.
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This is what greeted us as we entered our cabin at the Running Y Resort in Klamath Falls, OR.
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A view of the fully equipped kitchen at the Running Y Resort Vacation Rental.
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Our personal backyard retreat at the resort. The creek flowing was the icing on the cake. The kids had a blast on this.

 

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The drive to Crater Lake from Klamath Falls is about an hour. The tiny towns surrounding it are amazing not because they are bursting with life but more so because there is no life there and it was very surprising to see that.

The drive to Crater lake was an experience in itself. We saw towns which were abandoned and yet there were acres and acres of lakes and open farmland around. It defied all logic. Man has historically found home in such areas and yet this part of the world stays isolated.

As we drove into the park, snow dusted evergreens welcomed us.  Crater lake is a caldera that gets its water only from rain and melted snow. It also happens to be the deepest lake in the US and the s7th  deepest in the world. There is no inlet or outlet to this lake, and maybe that’s why it is so pure and still.

Another conundrum of nature; OR a state with so few people and yet an abundant supply of water and here we are in CA, next door neighbors scrambling for water. Wonder why the world can’t just be a free place.

If the cost of living wasn’t so high, I think many of us would continue to be travellers. What do you think?

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The Drive INTO the Crater Lake National Park was a fairy tale come alive. Snow dusted evergreens – absolutely breathtaking and magical.
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CRATER LAKE. The water is still – not a single ripple, almost as if life takes a pause to marvel at its beauty.

DAY 2: We decided to drive to Lava Beds National Monument, CA (http://www.nps.gov/labe/index.htm) Yes, this National Park is an undiscovered CA treasure that sits at the border of CA and OR.  Once again it is one of those national parks that on paper will seem very blah, but when you go there, you will be amazed to see how Earth presents itself in the crudest form and yet looks so pretty. It is a volcanic and geological paradise. One of the few places (I think) where you can experience the magic of ice-caves, it was home to the Modoc’s until we the civilized man entered the area and gave rise to the famous Modoc War. It is 700 caves that are a testimony to half a million years of turmoil.  It is approx an hour from Klamath Falls, OR.

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LAVA BEDS NATIONAL MONUMENT
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Lava Beds – Pure blackness, and makes you wonder who life can survive in these dreary conditions.
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A better shot of the lava beds and rocks as you drive into the park.
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Pumice – proof, this was volcanic heaven.

We saw an ICE-CAVE. An ice-cave is usually formed in lava tubes, and has at least some portion of the cave that is below freezing temperatures and so there is ice all year around in that cave. In dry arid areas such as the lava bed national monument, these geological features play a critical role in keeping life alive. DO NOT go in here without flashlights. We DID NOT have any, so we only ventured in a little bit with the help of our trusted iPhones. There are steps that go deep down into the cave and if you are brave enough to do to those depths, you will be rewarded with Ice at the bottom. 

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SKULL CAVE – Its an Ice-Cave.
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The walkway into the Ice-Cave. It is DARK. DO NOT GO IN WITHOUT FLASHLIGHTS.
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This is the ROOF of the ice-cave.

Next we decided to explore the Petroglyph Rock. The park claims to have the largest collection of Native American drawings, unfortunately though a lot of it has been destroyed by the modern man graffiti.  Believe it or not, about 4000 years ago, this area was submerged in water and what looks like a gigantic rock today was actually an island.

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Petroglyph Rock

We walked around this and tried hard to find some remains of the Mordoc tribe. Below are the two clearest markings we could find.

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Petroglyph markings on the rocks in Lava Beds.
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Looks like a little Mordoc girl was drawing herself 🙂


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We stayed in the area for 5 nights, and only saw two national parks. We could have driven to Bend and other places around, but we decided to honor the slow life of Klamath Falls and just took it easy.  Sometimes that’s important too.  Go with the pace of the place. The Running Y resort has plenty to keep the kids busy an the adults can enjoy the serenity of the area.  BBQ dinners in snow courtesy a brave family that accompanied us, completed every evening perfectly.

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As we drove back, the magnificence of Mt. Shasta made us pause in humility once again.

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Mt. SHASTA.

Crater lake was amazing, but the experience is incomplete till we hike to the Wizard Island. Until then, keep discovering.

Diversity, are you there?

Diversity in the simplest form is a variety of anything. Diversity in wardrobe, cuisine, and sometimes even friendships is what keeps life interesting. After all “variety is the spice of life.” The word diversity in the world today is nothing more than a buzz word.. a word that is often used as a marketing tool.  Diversity today means “assimilation of individuals from different cultural backgrounds.” Corporations, colleges, even cities and counties use it as an marketing tool to attract new customers, clients and residents.  That’s all good, but there is a key element of diversity that is often missed; it’s the element of being inclusive.

Variety is the SPICE of life.
Variety is the SPICE of life.

Being inclusive is a two edged sword with “the need of belonging” and “pseudo diversity” at a constant fight with each other. Feeling of belonging is a fundamental human need. We all want to be a “part” of something, and at the same time birds of the same feather want to flock together. It’s a conundrum. On one hand we want to learn about different cultures and traditions and yet we are afraid to make friends or socialize with someone who comes from a world different from ours.  While being friends with another one unlike you can be understood, it is hard to understand the concept of pseudo diversity; at least for me it was until a few months ago when I noticed a 6 year old comment on the subject.

It all started with a trip to Napa Valley, CA, sitting in a pizzeria, the kids comment, we are the only Indians here.  I expected the older child to notice and comment but was taken by surprise when the younger sibling quipped in and said, “ya that’s weird. In my school, we are all Indians.”  This sentence got me thinking, they are growing up in US and yet she has only Indian friends, eats Indian, talks Indian and one of her favorite songs is “Indiawale.” I looked at my older one, who loves India, mimics SRK and yet has friends in every shape, size and color and his roots are midwestern. How did this happen? Is it a personality thing? Maybe it is. However I do believe the environment has a big role to play too.

Kids and adults alike in our neighborhood even though immigrants are not minorities. They are the majority. The concept of minority is alien to this neighborhood.  Some of you might take pride in this fact. For me its one of those “ok whatever” things. When I came to the US, I landed in a town with 10,000 families and we were the only colored folks there 🙂 Yes there is ignorance, there is lack of awareness of the world around them, however the warmth and love I got from folks there still warms my heart.  I am yet to see the humility I saw there and I am yet to experience the inclusive-ness I experienced in the little town of Greensburg, IN.

When the kids elementary school had the idea of introducing the concept of having an “International Day,” I grabbed upon the opportunity. I was at the brink of frustration with this concept of pseudo diversity. Where is the diversity?   With this question and the support of some amazing and outstanding parent leaders, it was decided to celebrate the world we live in.  Every grade was a continent and within that they had a theme to work with. The best was when we discussed Asia 🙂 Should it be China or India? How do we decide? So we did something smart.. we gave them Mt. Everest 🙂 A little bit of both..LOL. Were they bummed.. you bet. There were many who asked..why not China and India? The answer is simple.. these kids live China and India every day. Some asked, why not Hawaii and Mexico for North America? Well, the most obvious vacations for folks in CA are Hawaii or Mexico. Every once in a while, Vegas and Grand Canyon get some attention, but beyond that it’s probably New York. Everything in between is lost in oblivion for CA. So for the continent of North America, it was let’s meet our neighbor Canada :). What do you think eh?  Additionally, we travelled to Greece, saw the gods and goddesses come alive,  experienced a base camp at Mt. Everest and met some of the mountaineers, travelled to Australia to see the aboriginal art and even the Galapagos Islands and understood why Darwin was in awe of the place. All this in one night. It was “around the world with 7 grades.”

The best part for me was to see the senior most grade celebrate Africa. Why?  In the entire grade there is one kid with African heritage. She was the lone student interested in celebrating. Slowly and steadily here classmates joined in and embraced and celebrated her culture. From what I saw, it was clear that the kids surprised themselves.  Shakira’s Waka-Waka came alive and so did a true Sudanese dance along with many artifacts from Africa itself.  I hope in the process they made some new friendships.  I hope now when they hear of Africa, they will think beyond the Apartheid and images of poverty that is spattered by the media. I hope they will embrace the continent where human beings were born.

Diversity is so much more than living in a place with people from different nationalities. It is about tolerating each other. It is about NOT bragging on the supremacy of one culture vs. the other. It is about accepting the flaws in our own society and recognizing the positives in another. Most importantly, it is about sharing, both happiness and sorrows.

If the world was meant to be as different as we perceive it to be, Pangea would be a fiction of our imagination.

We the Women…

Woman’s day, Woman’s week – we celebrated by sharing pictures, sending uplifting messages on WA and FB to each other and just enjoyed the glory of being ourselves.  One of the stream of messages on WA caught my attention, it talked about the other side of womanhood. It talked about how “we the women” are frenemies. Yes you read it right, we are our own friends and enemies.

For  a few minutes let’s keep all the Lean In feminism on the side and think about this. When we see a mom – with a stellar career choosing to move on with her career and not coming to field trips in school, we the super cool moms who attend the field trips are the first ones to comment on how Ms. Busy Bee never has time. “We the women” never complaint about dads not coming or being a part of it, “we the women” just accept that no matter how busy a mom is, she has to find time. “We the women” grunt at the mom, who sends her kid to school with unbrushed hair, “we the women” snicker at the friend who writes post after post of how amazing her life is.  “We the women” look at others and wonder about The Dress Up Game (http://www.shilpaverma.com/the-dress-up-game/) The bottom line is “we the women” have an inherent trait of jealousy in us.  Guys don’t have that. You can argue they do, and maybe you are right. But the woman jealousy factor is 100 times more potent. Guys are competitive and may choose to take a short cut to succeed in their career, but they don’t have time or the patience to gossip about another guy who is doing better than that. We the women do. We love gossips. And just to be clear, the WE in “we the women” includes me too. 

All the women gossip , MIL, jealous wife jokes exist for  reason. They are fictitious but stem from reality.

India – a country close to my heart is slaved to domestic help. If the maid calls in sick, the whole family grunts and grinds. On woman’s day – how many of “we the women” choose to give that maid a day off as a mark of respect to her womanhood. “We the women” pampered ourselves in salons and gatherings, all in while we had another woman cleaning up our mess.   

Why am I venting out? Simply because I wish for “we the women” to stop comparing ourselves to ourselves. Stop judging me based on what I do. Stop being unhappy with your life because you think mine is perfect. Guess what, mine is not. I have my battles too. I fight them everyday with my internal strength and a prayer and somewhere in between I try to smile too.  You should do the same. Life did not promise us a bed of roses, but it does have this unique way of preparing us for the future. So next time, please don’t judge me based on my clothes, or how I look or what I do with my life. My life is mine and yours is yours. Why oh why do “we the women” judge. Let’s just be and let us be.  

Let it be “Us the Women,” ‘cos both you and I know that this journey called womanhood would be impossible without girlfriends.  

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HAPPY HOLI!

“Red, Green, Yellow and Blue

The colors of Holi remind me of you
‘cos just like them, you are so vibrant and fun too.” 

The above sentiment summarizes my thoughts for my FB family.  Thank you for pushing me when I needed it and applauding when it was deserved.

Holi to me brings back memories of my girlfriends and I taking our mopeds and racing through Vadodara from house to house smearing each other with colors, hoarding on the yummies are moms made and dodging the water splashes by faces unknown. Ahh… if only the kids of today knew how to live a carefree life. We had nothing compared to them, and yet we laughed till our stomachs hurt and tears rolled down. We ate without the worry of our cholesterol increasing and getting a sugar hype 🙂 And we survived college without Google 🙂 Such was the magic of a tech free world. 

Today I reminiscence those colorful days and hope for a vibrant world for my kids. A world where every color gets equal recognition in the color wheel. Those who paint know that while white makes it bright,  red and yellow bring make it vibrant but it is the  black and brown  that ground the painting.  

It’s Holi, the festival of colors.  Colors make the world come alive. Think “The Giver” 🙂 A world without colors and uniformity might sound interesting, but the Homo sapien was not designed for uniformity. It evolved to break the rules and ask for more. The “more” maybe greed today, but it is the “want of more” that made us what we are. Love it or not, your choice, but it is the need for more of every shade is the basic color wheel, that gave us the vibrant world we live in today. It takes nerves of steel to survive in the world today and YES we have and will continue to thrive. The thriving happens when we have friends and family to laugh and cry with. So this Holi,  pick up the phone and talk to someone you haven’t spoken to  in a very long time. It’s the prefect time to break the ice and renew long forgotten friendships and relationships.  Don’t text, TALK! Surprise them with a call and listen to their smile.

HAPPY HOLI TO YOU & YOURS! 

HAPPY HOLI TO YOU AND YOURS!
HAPPY HOLI TO YOU AND YOURS!HAPPY HOLI TO YOU AND YOURS!